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The pains of motherhood

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 Motherhood is the most beautiful and sacred stage in a life of a woman. Most women become excited about it even before becoming one. Being a mother is a pure blessing from God but it carries a lot of pain in it. It is a mixture of joys and pains just like a rainbow. Let's discuss about the pains of motherhood. 1. Increased expenditure. Once you begin to have children, your spending will escalate because children come with a lot of needs and we cannot ignore them because they are necessary. I remember when I had no child,I could manage to save much money for tours and it was something I loved to keep me busy when I was off at work. I used to manage my finances very well and it was very easy for me to make expensive outings,to buy expensive clothes,shoes and hair but after I got pregnant things changed I started buying clothes and other needed things for my incoming baby and it wasn't easy to adjust. Later on I discovered that my expenditure was increased. 2. Balancing responsib...

The truth nobody talks about.

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 After being in marriage for over a decade ,I have learnt alot of lessons such that I don't understand why these things are not known the people before getting married. Let's dive into them. Most people do not know that when they get married they inherit each other's family battles and diseases. At some point I was surprised that my prayer life become difficult and I used to feel so heavy when praying, until I had a revelation that am being fought by my husband's spiritual enemies. He's battles became my battles so I had to increase the gear in prayer and fasting for me to win the battle and continue to grow in my spiritual life. It is important to check the family you want to get married to because some families are deep into witchcraft and satanism. They may look innocent and loving but it's just the surface that you see until you join them officially that's when you will begin to see and hear what you did not know. Some families have serious curses and b...

Love is a mystery

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 My name Lutando Simango ,I come from the Eastern part of Zambia. I was born in 1992 on second of Am a third born in a family of eight. I was brought up from a Christian home and I love to do godly activities.I lost my father when I was just eight years old then after eight years my mother also joined her ancestors and life became miserable for me and my siblings. Nevertheless I managed complete my secondary school in 2010 and joined society. I never had any interest in romantic relationships because I was just interested in going to university and become a degree holder. Different men approached me but I was so difficult to convince until I was admitted at one of the biggest and famous university here in Zambia. In my first year I met a second year student who convinced me to start dating him. At first it sounded awkward but I later started enjoying the relationship. I can confess that the guy was coming from a very poor family compared to were I come from,but he was full of love ...

The power of a praying woman

The importance of prayer can never be overlooked in the christian circles but here I want to be specific with the power of a praying woman. A woman who prays is a system which cannot be easily brought down because she draws strength from the invisible.The devil is scared of a praying woman because he knows the impact of it. Here are some of what happens when a woman prays: 1.A reservoir of spiritual knowledge. A woman who prays is has a capacity to receive more knowledge from God because God entrusts his people with spiritual knowledge for the purpose of thorough communion. God desires to have an intimate relationship with his people. So when someone becomes available in prayer, God's heart is moved to provide such a person with necessary knowledge so that the closeness to him becomes evident. 2. Role model. She becomes a role model for young ones and other women. A woman who prays has the capacity to influence and lead as an example to other people around her. She lives a life tha...

The causes of Prostitution with churches in Africa

 In as much as we appreciate the desire for many people to be saved in the ministry of God,it has been noted that many believers are not stable with the churches they go to. You find that one believer is a member to four churches. It doesn't just occur well when that person move from one church to another and then comes back to their first church. Most church members appear in more than one church register. We are going to discuss the causes of prostitution with churches in Africa. 1. Desperation for miracles. Most believers are desperate to receive instant answer of prayer when they have a pressing issue at hand. It's important to visit men and women of God who can pray results into our lives but If we are desperate for miracles we shall find ourselves in wrong hands. Not everything that glitters is gold. 2. Lack of proper knowledge. Most people have a genuine desire to fellowship with other ministeries but they lack proper guidance on what a genuine fellowship is. Some people...

The power of music

 Imagine how life without music would be? I have come to realize that music is more than just singing,it's a worship that produces postive energy. Most people have their lives transformed through music. They are living a different life compared to how they were before they started to listen to certain kind of music. Now let's dive into what makes music powerful. 1. It unites people across languages and backgrounds. You will find that people will enjoy the sound of a certain song but they don't even know what that song means. I remember one time when a certain African music by the name of Rafiki produced a song which was talking about mourning and because it had a powerful beat,most of us danced to that song. It was too late for us stop dancing by the time we got hold of the meaning. 2.It brings comfort. There are times a person may feel low because of a certain situation or circumstance present in their life then they get to listen to songs that speak life into their predic...

How to reduce divorce in the world

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Marriage is a blessing and a loving relationship that keeps families growing in the entire world. Many people look at marriage to be an achievement while few people take it to be an option. Besides it being beautiful and loving,a lot are suffering because it ends in tears when divorce is fostered. Divorce is a very painful thing that can happen even without visualizing it. Alot of woman are affected because they start having a burden of having children with different surnames. The good news is that, divorce can be reduced by the following steps: 1. Forgiveness. To err is human to forgive is divine. We can choose to forgive our spouses daily and continue to enjoy our marriages. 2. Submitting to each other. Most people think submission in marriage is a weakness but what they don't know is that it yields postive energy and makes marriage workable. 3. Tolerance. When you tolerate your partner's shortcomings you're communicating that you're also not perfect and it gives a se...